How to Get Pregnant, Even When You've Tried Everything by A'ndrea Reiter
Author:A'ndrea Reiter
Language: eng
Format: epub
Tags: how to get pregnant;getting pregnant;pregnancy help;fertility;fertility issues;fertility help;fertility guide;how to get pregnant when you've tried everything;andrea reiter;mind-body;mind body;mind body connection;guide to getting pregnant;guide to fertility;CVR09182017
Publisher: Llewellyn Worldwide, LTD.
Published: 2018-05-23T13:33:17+00:00
Really do some searching of what your circumstances were. This will apply to both miscarriages and terminations (and the subconscious guilt we can still carry).
Write down the circumstances so your brain can really see why it didn’t happen. If there were multiple miscarriages, look at each one separately. Then look at your circumstances now. Theoretically there have been some changes and you’re in a better place now, and you can feel like it won’t repeat itself.
If it still feels scary, pull out a belief sheet and look at I miscarried before, so I will again, or, for a termination, I’m being punished for the termination by not getting pregnant now. They’re both not true, but I get why they feel true, so really feel into them. Don’t think the answers. Feeling is how you shift.
Why Is It Perfect?
So often in this process, if we think we should have been pregnant by now or if we’ve had a miscarriage, we can feel that this situation isn’t fair. We can feel that the Universe is against us and that it may never happen. Whenever we think something should be different from what it is, it’s not true.
That’s a tough pill to swallow for a lot of people, but it’s all kinds of true. If it should have happened, it would have. If it shouldn’t have happened, it wouldn’t have. We get a little rigid about what we think is a good timeline for our stuff to materialize, but our path is so much bigger than what we are consciously aware of. So we want to look at the situation from a curious, exploratory place and say, “Okay, here’s what is: I feel like I shouldn’t have had a miscarriage. But if I shouldn’t have, I wouldn’t have. I did. So what might be going on in my life or in my experience that would precipitate that?”
For example, perhaps you moved, you got a new job, your job was stressful, your husband was out of work, your relationship was rocky, you were overscheduled at work or in your life, etc. I guarantee you there’s something. Sometimes it takes looking at it on paper for your brain to go, “Ohhhhh, it couldn’t have happened before now. We had X, Y, and Z going on.” It’s important that you release the energy you have spinning in what should have been and direct it toward what you’d actually love. Then look at why now is the right time for you to get pregnant. You can use these two worksheets from the Conceivable Tool Kit: Why Wasn’t It The Right Time Before Now? and Why Is It the Right Time Now?
After some belief work and energy work and some coaching to work through why things had happened, my client was able to let go of the fear and get pregnant.
I find Valor essential oil by Young Living really helpful for fertility in general, but especially for alleviating miscarriage fear. Apply it to the base of your spine and the bottoms of your feet.
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